Showing posts with label Positive. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Positive. Show all posts

Saturday, November 30, 2019

A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood


MOVIE TITLE: A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood
DIRECTOR: Marielle Heller
YEAR: 2019
GENRE: Drama
RATING: PG for violence
GRADE: Extra Credit

After watching this movie and having sore eyeballs as a result, I can say with a hundred percent conviction that the story is completely devoid of Mary-Sues and Gary-Stus. On the contrary, imperfections can be found among every character, including Mr. Fred Rogers himself. He may be a kind and gentle soul in public as well as on TV, but even he admits that he makes mistakes every now and then. He too gets angry. He too feels sad. He too had a tumultuous childhood and married life. The only difference is, he’d rather use positivity and creative therapy as a conduit for his emotions, not violence and rage. It takes work to achieve this kind of attitude towards life. And yes, there are many bumps in the road. Tom Hanks, the actor who played Mr. Rogers, openly admitted to being terrified to play his role. He doesn’t have to be anymore, because he knocked it out of the park. He made me believe in the kindness of Mr. Rogers all over again, imperfections and all.

Lloyd Vogel, the journalist who is assigned to interview Mr. Rogers, has his own share of imperfections. He hates his father, he’s questioning himself as a parent, he’s wrapped up in his work and can’t be there for his family, and he’s stubborn about not wanting to interview a “hokey children’s show host”. To put it mildly, he’s got a lot of anger in his heart and won’t let anybody in. After many interviews with Mr. Rogers, his transformation into a loving and forgiving person becomes the basis for his character development. It’s a slow, distrustful, and heartbreaking transformation. He even shows glimpses of the father he hates so much. If you’re a big fan of character development, you’ll easily get behind Lloyd Vogel. When he cries, you cry. When he’s angry, you’re angry. When he triumphs, you’ll cheer for him. He makes awful decisions, but that doesn’t detract from him being a relatable protagonist.

You know who else has a lot of growing up to do? Jerry Vogel, Lloyd’s aforementioned jerk of a father. He mocks his son at the beginning of the movie and the two get physical over it (hence the PG rating for violence). Jerry slept around while the mother of the family was dying. He abandoned the family when they needed him the most. But it’s easy to tell that he’s a sleazebag from the minute he first appears on the screen. The rest of these revelations come naturally. But is he a redeemable character? Can he too go through a transformation and mend fences with his son? Yes, he’s a sleazebag, but if he was perfect and gallant all the time, there’d be no story and there’d be nothing to cheer for as the movie progresses. You like character development, right? You like slow transformations? You like redemption stories? Keep an eye on Jerry Vogel. Will your patience pay off? Watch the movie and find out.

As I mentioned before, my eyes got sore during the more emotional moments of this movie. None of it came across as cheesy. This was genuine emotion and nobody knew more about how to deal with our emotions than Fred Rogers himself. It takes time. It takes patience. But it’s worth it in the end. That’s what this movie means to me. That’s why this movie gets a solid five out of five stars. A perfect grade for a movie about imperfect people. It truly is a beautiful day in the neighborhood. There better be some award victories for this movie.

Tuesday, May 22, 2018

Because of You


Whether or not you believe it to be true
This world is different because of you
Every word you say, every dollar you spend
Every action you take, every position you defend
Every friend you make, every heart you take
Every enemy you kill, all the blood you spill
What seems like nothing on the surface
Could feel to others overwhelmingly urgent
A lifelong lesson or an honorable mention
A permanent heaven or a hellish weapon
For every action, there’s a consequence
No in-betweens, no riding on the fence
Do you want to be a force of positive change?
Or a constant source of negative pain?
No matter what decision you ultimately make
Have no regrets unless you want to break
This world is different because of you
Either tear it apart or become its glue

Sunday, August 27, 2017

Cold

VERSE 1
I gave up on helping you a long time ago
The tears in your eyes continued to flow
You never wanted help, never wanted peace
The negativity never really wanted to cease
You argue even after being proven wrong
Your heart is weak, your ego is strong
I’ll never help those who won’t help themselves
I guess that makes my heart cold as hell

CHORUS
You wonder why I act so cold
Because this shit is getting old
Sick of watching drama unfold
It’s the final time you will be told

VERSE 2
Believe it or not, I was once in your shoes
But I turned negativity into the oldest news
Took me many years to see clearly now
At my kind of age, I’m feeling damn proud
My ego was once the size of good old Texas
I had no interest in cleaning my own messes
I hated the world with a burning passion
If I hadn’t listened, I’d wear funeral fashion

EXTENDED CHORUS 1
You wonder why I act so cold
Because this shit is getting old
Sick of watching drama unfold
It’s the final time you will be told
Call me heartless, call me cold
Your hand was never mine to hold
Take a chance, be brave and bold
Or sleep underground covered in mold

BRIDGE
I’ve never been great at the toughest love
Now my new role fits just like a glove
You’ve pushed my buttons too many times
With the number of times I’ve heard you whine

EXTENDED CHORUS 2
You wonder why I act so cold
Because this shit is getting old
Sick of watching drama unfold
It’s the final time you will be told
Call me an asshole, call me a bastard
Call me anything, it doesn’t matter
You’re going to listen if you like it or not

Wipe away your tears and bubbly snot